Tuesday, January 18, 2011

See Jane... er me.. Date

Hello! Its already 11pm so this is gonna be short and sweet. I slept terribly last night, so I was a grouch all day and I did not go to speed dating. I know it might have been fun but I was gonna eat someone alive and if no one "picked me" I would have broke down today, so I opted to stay home.

New about tomorrow - I got an email asking me to babysit, but I havnt heard back so idk if that will happen. Its for tomorrow and I could sure use the second income as I need to start saving for a new apartment. I also need to find a roommate, more things to add to my todo list.

I got a lot of comments about the guys and I want to thank you all for your impute! I do want to clarify a few things with PB.

When we met on pof.com he was looking for a relationship. We talked for 2 weeks, had our first date, and second date in the same weekend. The the next wed his car was stolen. That friday he took me to my holiday party and we made out.

After all that, he wrote me a very kind letter, which he read to me over the phone, telling me he was just very stressed and needed to focus on himself etc. I totally understood, he has a lot on his plate. We decided to be friends with the possibility of something more.

When we exchanged gifts, we kissed a little bit, but I could tell his head was else where. I havnt seen him since. That was before christmas. We txt a few times a day, but not like we used to. Sometimes he flirts, a lot of the time he ignores me when I ask to hang out, as friends.

Im not gonna lie - it hurts. We had such a connection on our first date, but he's cold now. His car being stolen really hurt him, emotionally he pretty much shut down.

Im trying hard to be there for him as a friend but its not easy when I keep getting the brush off.

As for FF, I called him today and left a nice, short voice mail. I noticed he'd been on pof.com on Jan 18, so maybe he is busy. If I dont hear from him by friday Ill send him a quick note on pof.com asking if hes still interested in getting to know one another, and if I dont get a response, Ill just forget about him.

If someone has some idea why guys act so into you, and express interest in perhaps hanging out a 2nd or 3rd time and then they just disappear please let me know. Do their phones not work like ours? Do they not see missed calls and txt messages?

If I do end up going out for sushi tomorrow, which IDK about because I havnt heard from Sushi Guy in 2 days, Ill do a little profile about him tomorrow. 


karafrost said...

I would LOVE to know about why guys ignore girls. Same thing happened to me on pof.com. We had 3 dates, kissed on the 3rd date and then NOTHING. Haven't heard from him since new years eve. Good times, what is up with that???

*danielle said...

The only thing I can say is from the movie "He's Just Not That Into You."

This is not the exact quote, but a general summary:

"Guys know how to use a phone. If they want to talk to you, they will make it happen."

Harsh, maybe. But it's true.

Crazy Shenanigans-JMO said...

I've never been to Speed dating but I don't know if I could do it! That would be stressful!

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